How To Communicate To A Husband Hard Of Hearing

By Nancy Walker


At times, we are born with all our senses working. Over time, or with old age, some of the senses like hearing and seeing to fail. At other time they just fail without reason. Sometimes we just have to live with the condition we find ourselves in. Sometimes, it is our friends or loved ones suffering from such conditions. Below are tips on how to communicate to a husband hard of hearing.

You should always be considerate. Before you talk, get the attention of the person you are aiming to talk to. This gives them a chance to get ready to understand what it is you are going to say to them. Keep in mind that unlike hearing people, they need to put a lot of effort into concentrating so that they can be able to understand what you are saying.

It is obvious that you cannot see in the dark. The same way, a person can sometimes not hear what you might be saying even if their listening aid is on. To make it easier for them, make sure you are always facing them when you speak so that they are able to read your lips. The hearing aid only makes the sound louder for them to hear not clearer.

The hearing aid only controls the loudness of what you are saying. If you, therefore, want to be heard, it is best you try enunciating in your speech. Apart from enunciating, make sure that you speak at a steady pace. This allows the listening party time to try and read your lips and process what is being said. Too slow maybe useless as it may be hard to gather what is being said.

Pick your venue carefully. When you go to a noisy place, communication will be impossible. At home, make sure the music is off and things such as the Ac unit or fan are not loud. Otherwise, their concentration will be disrupted. The reaching out aid will actually make it worse by amplifying the noise. You should choose quite well-lit places.

When spending time with a group of people, do not make the person with the hearing problem feel excluded. You should be in a place that is well lit and put yourself in strategic positions where the person can be able to see each of you and read your lips. If the conversation involves them, take turns in speaking to avoid them getting confused.

The first few letters of a word can give a person an idea of what is being discussed. Therefore, you can spell the letters of a word that is hard to get. You should also not be tired of repeating a phrase several times in case they did not get it on the first try. Ultimately, you can choose to rephrase the words altogether and make them simpler.

Do not treat the person as if they were so delicate. The same way you would find humor when a normal person misunderstands, you should do the same. At the end of the day, it will be a lot of fun and they will be more comfortable speaking to you.




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